Victim or Victor?

I speak with a lot of people about their current life situation and my ears have been finely tuned to pick up on what the problem is going on in their lives.

So often I hear people blaming spouses, business partners, their firms, the market, their families for why they can’t be living the way they want.

I am guilty of this at times too. Blaming circumstances, situations or people for why things aren’t going my way.  Until I remember that the key to freedom is radical personal responsibility.

When we take radical personal responsibility, we take our power back.  We are no longer victims to our lives - we realize we are the creators and we can create whatever it is we want.

When something doesn’t go my way or I’m upset about a certain situation, I know that I somehow attracted that into my experience by being an energetic match to it.

I know the universe is bringing it to me to remind me to step into my own power and learn from it.

For example:

🤍If someone is rude or disrespectful to me, I look at the ways I am disrespectful to myself.  
🤍If prospects are being noncommittal, I see the ways in which I am being noncommittal.
🤍If a situation is very frustrating, I find where I still hold frustration and resentment inside.

And then I look to change that pattern within.  

The outside world is a mirror to our inner state.  And just like we wouldn't try to change the image on a mirror, we would change ourselves to see a different reflection, the universe works the same way.

I know this is a tough pill to swallow for a lot of people.  But when we can start taking radical personal responsibility, it is extremely empowering and liberating.

We will never get to where we want to go as long as we continue to blame the outside world for everything.  Start taking your power back and take responsibility for everything that happens in your life.

XO

Adrienne

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